Dedicated to the military and their families who are living with the wars hourly.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Danger zone
Block leave!
Wooohooo!
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Cindy McCain as a One Percenter
"When [her Marine son] Jimmy was in Iraq during the primary season, Cindy, like every mother whose son is at war, lived to hear his voice. She kept her BlackBerry in her hands at all times so she wouldn't miss his call. When she went on stage, she would hand the phone to a campaign aide who would stand with it in her line of sight. "She slept with that BlackBerry in her hand," says [her friend Sharon] Harper. Earlier this year Cindy approached the senator backstage at a campaign event. She was on the brink of tears. "He called," she told McCain. "I missed it." It was a rare moment of emotion for a woman who had vowed that, this time around, she would keep her tears in check whenever callous reporters were near."
I can sympathize. When Mark was on his last tour in Iraq, our day literally didn't begin until he called. It was devastating to miss one.
Regardless of politics, a Mom with a son at war is still a Mom with a son at war.
Friday, June 27, 2008
More Lara Logan/CBS controversy
has started a right vs. left blog war over her coverage. You can read about it here.
My point in bringing all this up was threefold:
One - She covered a story a year ago in which the 82nd showed up and saved the lives of two dozen Iraqi mentally disabled orphan boys in Baghdad. It was a horrific situation with it a happy ending. It was fairly reported and created a brief stir over there. It was not your normal TV war story. CBS lead with the story and gave it an unprecedented five minutes. But the media here yawned. After some persuasion to an old friend at the Associated Press, it was picked up. It was days after the incident and didn't make many, if any, papers.
Two - CBS ramping down in Iraq is a big deal. If producers don't think war is news, we are in deep trouble. Logan told The New York Times that "she begged for months to be embedded with a group of Navy Seals, and when she came back with the story, a CBS producer said to her, 'One guy in uniform looks like any other guy in a uniform.' " The producer is no longer at CBS.
But think about it: “One guy in uniform looks like any other guy in a uniform.” No, not really. That one guy in uniform is someone's brother, spouse, son, cousin, uncle or nephew.
Three - I was leading up to an amusing anecdote that involved Logan showing up in a downtown Baghdad Army post in the midst of 115 battle weary soldiers and their reactions to not only a talented but, in their view, extremely attractive reporter who "smelled good." But it's all moot now.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
CBS closes down Baghdad bureau
This is from Wednesday's New York Times:
"Lara Logan, the CBS News chief foreign correspondent who deplored the lack of media coverage of Iraq and Afghanistan last week, will no longer be based overseas, the network said on Wednesday.
Ms. Logan, who has covered both wars extensively for CBS, will be based in Washington, with a new title: chief foreign affairs correspondent. The position will probably give Ms. Logan, considered a rising star within CBS News, with more airtime on the “CBS Evening News” and “60 Minutes.”
“She will still travel all over the world, but she will based in Washington instead of London,” said Sean McManus, the president of CBS News. “She will still periodically cover the war in Iraq, and she will still cover international stories.”
Ms. Logan’s guest appearance on Comedy Central’s “Daily Show” on June 17 caught some viewers — and also some CBS staffers — off guard. Speaking to the host, Jon Stewart, she used colorful language to complain about how little airtime the broadcast networks devote to war reporting. CBS News recently stopped assigning a full-time correspondent to Iraq, becoming the first American network to do so. . ." (my bold face)
The complete story can be found here.Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Completely off topic
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Who is paying attention?
"THE Iraq war’s defenders like to bash the press for pushing the bad news and ignoring the good. Maybe they’ll be happy to hear that the bad news doesn’t rate anymore. When a bomb killed at least 51 Iraqis at a Baghdad market on Tuesday, ending an extended run of relative calm, only one of the three network newscasts (NBC’s) even bothered to mention it.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Dad's don't talk
There were plenty of male war bloggers out there but they were all full of testosterone and politics. I wasn't interested in the surge-is-or-isn't-working conversations. I was looking for someone who got up every morning, looked at his watch and wondered what his son had done the night before.
I only found one written by Infantry Dad.
That was it. One.
We have followed each other's sons through very long deployments and thankfully both are home safe. It was nice to have someone to talk to.
This spring I found another blog written by Abnpoppa.
His son is also in the 82nd and in the same brigade as my son.
My question: Why aren't more dads writing?
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Random thoughts
For those of you who are stopping by from Jan Wesner's Standing By, the blog post she references is down below. It is titled "Faces of our loved ones."
More attention is being paid to war deaths resulting from what the Department of Defense labels " injuries sustained in a non-combat related incident." My son had told me about one incident in which a first sergeant had committed suicide in front of his men last year. It took place in Admiyah, a Sunni neighborhood not far from where our son's battalion patrolled. The story went like this: A number of soldiers in the first sergeant's company had been killed and he had taken it very badly. On a patrol with media in tow, he jumped out of his Humvee and shot himself. His team members took positions as if a sniper had attacked. It turns out that most of the story was true except for the media. The Army Times and the Fort Worth Star Telegram have written extensively about the incident. The Army Times story can be found here.
As of May 3, there have been 123 suicides in the Iraq and Afghanistan combat zones.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Updates and news from around the blogosphere
Jan Wesner over at Standing By is working on a book based on her blog. Jan is a gifted writer and I have high hopes that her book will be published. I will be the first in line to buy it.
Infantry Dad has summed up what it's like to be parent with a son at war. The last paragraph of his latest post basically says it all.
The folks from Westboro Baptist Church will be in Jacksonville today to demonstrate during the funeral of SPC Quincy Green who died in Iraq from sniper fire. The Patriot Guard has promised to turn out in force to create a buffer for the family. SPC Green arrived at Jax NAS earlier in the week. We offer prayers for SPC Green and his family.
Monday, June 9, 2008
Iraqi orphanage
Lara Logan from CBS did a five-minute segment on the CBS Evening News June 18. Mark later said the situation was so horrific that he may never be able to talk about it. And he hasn't since.
He did say that he had the privilege of retrieving Logan's hat that she left behind and that the entire company was quite enamored with her.
I've attached a link to the story here. Please note that the pictures and video are very graphic.
Saturday, June 7, 2008
Good news
His dad and I have become Internet friends as we watched and waited for sons to come home.
Boots on the ground.
The happiest words for parents.
You can see more here.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
PTSD
A story in yesterday's Washington D.C. suggest that the Army still has a way to go.
At Fort Benning, the Army built new barracks to house the Warrior Transition Battalion for soldiers who are receiving medical treatment. About 10 to 15 percent of the battalion housed there have PTSD. By all accounts, the barracks are well built and have nice amenities including flat screen TVs and free Internet service.
The only problem? The barracks are across the street from a live firing range which wreaks havoc on those suffering from PTSD. You can read about here.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Faces of our loved ones
We would have never made it through our last deployment without this group.
Monday, May 26, 2008
Memorial Day photo album
The following photos are not meant to represent the events at the ceremony today, but as an album of our family's remembrance of Memorial Day 2008.
Memorial Day speech
SPC Mark's speech at the Veteran's Wall in Jacksonville:
Good morning
I am deeply honored to be here this morning.
I am a soldier in the
I am a paratrooper in the 82nd airborne.
I am a veteran of two combat tours in
I have entered and cleared more than five hundred buildings . . .
more than a 150 mounted and dismounted patrols on the streets of
participated in 15 air assault missions into
some of the worst neighborhoods of
Tikrit to Ramadi to a little know place known as Yusafiah.
I am not a hero.
The 13 brothers we left behind . . .
and the men and women whose names are etched in the wall behind me . . .are heroes.
Today is Memorial Day and we remember and honor their
sacrifice. Memorial Day and Veterans Day seem
especially important in this time of war. But they
are no less important in times of peace. Today is not
just a time to remember the four thousand plus who have paid
the ultimate price in
but a time to remember all of
those patriots from all wars who answered a far off
call in the name of their country and never came home.
After I returned from
behind to complete their 15-month tour.
Weeks from redeploying and on his last mission . . . a friend of mine
walked into a house and was killed instantly by an IED.
He was as good a man as I have ever met. . .
devoted family man. . .
never one to let the Army get the best of him.
Just like every name on that wall. . . he had a story.
Each left behind love ones and friends.
Each left behind a void that may never be filled.
Despite this. . . let Memorial Day not be a national day of
mourning but a day of celebration. Those of us left
behind must celebrate our cherished memories. . . and what
little time we were fortunate to have with them. We
must celebrate the fact that we are still free thanks
to their sacrifice. We all must celebrate the fact
that through it all . . . despite public opinion or
political climate . . . this country still has sons and
daughters willing to give their most precious
possession in the name of freedom.
As long as this wall stands. . . As long as there are
people still willing to take a day to remember. . .As
long as there are still people willing to put on the
uniform. . .As long as this country remains a beacon of
freedom . . . our fallen shall live on. . . forever.
Thank you.



