Son in Baghdad

A former colleague of mine, Sig Christenson, now at the San Antonio Express News, posted these while reporting from Baghdad in April 2007.

"BAGHDAD, Iraq — Something like 1 percent of our population is in uniform. Even fewer carry the burden of fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan.

The Army is full of guys like Staff Sgt. Scott Plavney, 36, of Temple.

He was among a team of 1st Cavalry Division soldiers that last week checked on an abandoned clinic in Baghdad. Plavney and Staff Sgt. Sean Clark, 35, of Schenectady, N.Y., spied the neighborhood. The voices of children at play could be heard, but the street appeared deserted.

That's a bad sign, like in the westerns when everyone clears the dusty main drag as the bad guys ride into town.

"This is a perfect example of how well it's going," Plavney said, prompting me to think he was nuts. "There's a boy walking down the street with a bag of food."

My paranoia meter shot up. Maybe that kid was out there to lull the soldiers into complacency. There is danger everywhere in this city and, for that matter, all of Iraq. Earlier Tuesday 16 GIs were wounded and four Iraqi army soldiers killed in a daylong central Baghdad battle.

So when I think of how small the military is, the many sacrifices it makes and how unlikely most Americans are to know anyone on the front lines, I wonder about the wisdom of an all-volunteer service.

I wondered some more after reading a message from an old boss at The Florida Times-Union in Jacksonville, Mark Middlebrook. He reminded me that he has a big stake in this war.

"I hope you are doing well," he wrote in a message left on my blog. "My son is in Baghdad at the moment with the 82nd."

That would be the 82nd Airborne Division. My heart sank. A longtime friend in Houston has a son in the war zone, too, I think in the 82nd. We grew up in Bellaire, an incorporated city just west of the downtown Medical Center, as Vietnam raged. I have a stepson who has been to Iraq twice.

Now in our middle age, it's our turn to watch the kids get shot at. They call or e-mail to say everything is fine. They make small talk. They don't tell you about the doors they kick down or the roadside bomb that barely missed them. They figure you don't need to know about that, and they're right.

I think about these things more when covering funerals for Iraq and Afghan veterans at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery. It's especially difficult when a Pentagon death notice crosses my desk, and we do a story about a San Antonio kid killed in action.

The weight of this war falls as much on the parents, spouses and siblings of those back home as it does here. In some ways, perhaps, it's easier on the soldiers and Marines in the war zone because they bond together so tightly.

It's an amazing thing to watch. These guys are tough, well trained and motivated. And they're great to write about.

This is a brave bunch out here, but my heart goes out to their loved ones back home. It takes a lot of guts to be a soldier's dad.

Just ask Mark Middlebrook."

Baghdaddy Beat factoid

Baghdaddy Beat, the video made by son's platoon while in Baghdad, made Google's most blogged videos in England and Australia on April 26. If you haven't seen it, just scroll down the page.

Training

SPC Mark will be in a three-week training cycle, which will make it impossible for him to do any posting. Until then, I will be prattling on. Please bear with us.

Mother's Days (or daze)

Mother's Day is a traditional celebration recognizing Moms for all of the sacrifice and hard work they do tending to their families. But for a soldier's Mom, Mother's Day doesn't always fall in May:

Heading back to the barracks after the Turning Green ceremony.
2005

Turning Blue ceremony
8/18/2005

Somewhere in Iraq
2006

Homecoming at Green Ramp
12/9/2006

Downtown Baghdad
2007

Homecoming at Green Ramp
11/3/2007

Happy Mother's Day everyone!

The Warrior (A Mother's Story of a Son at War)

From Gayle:

I saw this on PBS tonight (about Frances Richey's new book). It was so touching, I thought you all would appreciate
the thoughts. You can watch the piece on the http://www.pbs.org/newshour/indepth_coverage/entertainment/poetry/index.html
there is more on

http://www.francesrichey.com/content/index.asp

Happy Mothers'Day OnePercenters

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 9, 2008 (From Frances Richey's Blog)
Fort Bragg

Ben and I were at Fort Bragg yesterday. We spoke to an amazing group of women who are in Famliy Readiness Groups at different posts around the country. All had husbands or sons who have served or are serving in Iraq or Afghanistan. I read a few poems, but the best part of the time we spent with them was the question and answer period. Ben and I shared equally in the discussion, and it felt wonderful to be there with my son and with a dedicated and caring community of women who are helping each other through the deployments of their loved ones. Ben and I enjoyed the time we spent there. I'm looking forward to our reading/talk at West Point next week.

I've been reading and enjoying your e-mails. There have been some questions about where I grew up. I grew up and went to public schools in West Virginia. Some of you have asked if I'll be coming to your area on the book tour. If you go back to the home page, you can click on the schedule heading and see all the dates and cities. In general, I'll be in New York, DC, Boston, Raleigh-Durham, Atlanta, Chicago, Denver, Colorado Springs, Seattle and San Francisco. I only wish I was going to have a little more time in each city, but this will be a quick trip...a city a day.

Thank you for your heartfelt messages.

A soldier, a CD and a mother's wish

Madeleine Tavares, who is the organizer of our military support network, writes about her son 1LT Matt Tavares in today's USA Today.

In the news

Mold and aging barracks are not just a problem for Ft. Bragg. Many Army bases face the same thing according to USA Today.

Also, USA Today reported that 43,000 troops who deployed to combat zones were medically unfit although the gravity of health issues are unknown. That included 9,140 troops who deployed in 2007. You can read about it here.

Distractions: TPC and promotability

Ernie Els
5/7/2008
Photo by Mark M. (the other one)

This time of year, golf becomes an enormous distraction for those of us who live in Jacksonville. The Players Championship, which claims the best field in golf, takes place a short distance from where we live. For us in North Florida, it means two things: The return of hot weather (yesterday it was in the 90s) and unbearable traffic (getting out of our neighborhood is a life threatening experience). Usually we surrender and go to the tournament, if nothing else, to watch the people. It's a zoo.

On Wednesday, the PGA Tour presented Jack Nicklaus with the Lifetime Achievement Award. The Navy band was there to play the National Anthem, but not a peep about the troops overseas. But we shouldn't complain. The Tour gave SPC Mark tickets to a Jacksonville Jaguar game when he came home from his first deployment. It was greatly appreciated.

At Ft. Bragg, the Red Falcon battalion promotion board met. Young Mark appeared and apparently did well although he won't know officially for a couple of weeks how well he did. But he had been very busy preparing, which is why we haven't heard from him recently. He has a little time off this weekend and I am hopeful that he will return to the keyboard.

A Day On Patrol

Another video from 1st platoon. Don't see SPC Mark in this one.

E-mail

My gmail went crazy today and started sending out messages I archived nearly two years ago. I figured out the problem (0perator error, of course) but it gave me a chance to look at the nearly 2,139 e-mails that I had tagged and archived as "family etal."

The vast majority of them were Iraq- and war-related. I was stunned.

I knew the Iraq deployments had chewed up a big piece of our lives, but I didn't know it was that much of a distraction.

More than 2,000 emails in 22 months. Amazing.

Finding SPC Mark

For those of you who drop by to read SPC Mark's stories, you can now find them on a new blog called "Outside the Wire." It's bookmarked on the sidebar or you can click on www.outsidethewire82.blogspot.com

Outside the Wire is an open blog for service members who have literally been outside the wire on their tour through Iraq and Afghanistan. We are hoping other service members will join in the conversation.

SPC Mark will continue to post here as well.

Military Appreciation Day

For the last three years, our neighborhood in Ponte Vedra Beach, Florida, Dolphin Cove, holds an annual Military Appreciation Day. Out of approximately 300 houses in the subdivision, there are more than 70 members who have or are serving in the military. Today was a celebration of their service.

Guest of honor: Chief Petty Officer Nicholas Patrizio, USN (Ret)
Patrizio, 93, is a veteran of three wars, WWII, Korea and Vietnam.
He enlisted in 1933 and lives in our neighborhood.

SPC Danielle Inama, 3rd Brigade, 82nd Airborne
SPC Inama returned from Baghdad in October and will redeploy in November.

HSL-44 (Swamp Fox) lands at our neighborhood ball field.

Our neighbor, Chuck Ellis, and friend.
Mr. Ellis served on the USS Pennsylvania on Dec. 7, 1941 in Pearl Harbor.

U.S. Navy helicopter crew shows how this thing flies.

Paratrooper press conference

Four of the friends of Sgt. Sergio Sanchez held a press conference yesterday to add more details of his April 12 murder outside a Fayetteville night club, reports the Fayetteville Observer today.
Sanchez had stepped out of the night club and was talking to his girl friend when he happened upon a robbery in which some other soldiers were beaten and had their wallets stolen. Sanchez was the designated driver for his friends that night. He was approached by several armed men. He put his arms in the air and someone shot him in the back of the neck with a 12-guage shotgun. His girl friend heard everything over his cell phone. He died a week later and police are looking for suspects.

In the U.S., when bad men do bad things for money, we call them criminals.

In Baghdad, when bad men do bad things for money, we call them terrorists.

Some days, to me, it all sounds alike.

Baghdaddy Beat

Back by popular demand

Off topic: Best laid plans

This video has been making the rounds on the Internet. My brother-in-law sent it to us earlier in the week. I don't know anything about it or where it was taken but my paratrooper thought it was pretty funny.

Barracks problems reported earlier

The Fayetteville Observer reports this morning that problems with the Korean War era barracks were reported a month before the YouTube video was released. Also Secretary of Defense Robert Gates weighs in on the subject. See the story here.

Barracks update

The Fayetteville Observer has written a follow-up on the barracks at Ft. Bragg. It can be found here.

The Secretary of the Army visited yesterday and there have been calls for a Congressional investigation. That said, where are the soldiers?